Ordacleaphobia
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ah there we go. I'm not doing that. I'm just saying I understand why they'd want one.why do you suggest having it in the first place?
TBH I don't have any suggestions for these people, which is part of why it's so easy to empathize with them.
Probably a combination of both, I'd reckon. Can't say, can't speak from experience. But I'd wager probably a little bit of both because they sort of go hand-in-hand. Tough to feel 'safe' against a perceived threat if you feel powerless, and if you feel powerful, surely you'd feel safe.Having a gun makes people feel safe, or makes them feel powerful disguised as safety?